Surprise! I'm here! I'm actually still alive. Go figure.
Here's what you've missed.
More time with the baby. I wish I could keep him because he's just so gosh darn cute. But he's not mine, despite the fact he looks like he is. =)
My first Christmas Eve with bf's family. Picture with his aunt and uncle.
Christmas with bf and my family. My dad and brother played a funny, funny joke on bf. My brother bought him this very nice glass mug with the UCLA (he's an alum) emblem on it. And the stinker and my dad put a USC sticker on the bottom. Bf has started saying that you'll always find a trojan at the bottom of the barrel.

I had dinner with my amazing friends from high school. I wish I could have them around me all the time.
We spent New Years at bf's brother's house with the family...
And the baby...
Playing the Wii.
Now that we're all caught up, on to other things.
So... I was supposed to be working for the company I temped for a year and a half, but they had other ideas. Some shady, shady ideas that I don't want to be part of. Despite the fact that I worked my little tooshie off and really wanted to work at this place, and was promised this position, life just doesn't work out that way. I suppose that's God's way of telling me to move on and start my career, rather than just another job. I just have to figure out what I would like my career to be. I'm taking a couple of weeks off to relax and do whatever.
During this time I get to work on a ton of projects I've been putting off. Like organizing the pantry, the kitchen cabinets, the cleaning supplies, the bathroom cabinet, the linen cabinet. I get to make blackberry jam (have you seen how cheap blackberries are right now??), sew curtains for the bedroom, paint new baseboards, extend the pantry shelves, work on the master closet (having bf and his dad build it, I'll put the clothes in it), finish my quilt, start a new quilt for the bedroom with my extra fabric lying around, fix up the front bathroom, clean up my garden and prep for next season. Basically I get to be a housewife for a little while. And I'm loving it!
Yesterday I started on some of my projects and organized like crazy. Bf asked me why I don't just relax and I honestly can't until I'm organized sufficiently. And a clean house makes me happy. I'll post pictures when I'm done with my organizing and everything looks pretty.
I made 19 jars of blackberry jam today and had my neighbor fix a terrible haircut I got yesterday. Now I'm applying for a job in my town since it would be the best commute ever (other than a work from home job) and make enough money to keep us going. It's weird thinking about a job in terms of what would be best for our future family, but it's also really exciting.
BF and I have talked extensively about our future family lately. I guess unemployment and the prospect of finding a job that could be the last job I have gets you to thinking. What if we need someone to take kids to baseball practice? What about Girl Scouts in the afternoons? If one of the kids gets sick, am I close enough to get to them quickly? Dad will get them every Monday since he's off, but who takes them and picks them up the other four days? How do working parents do it all???
I should probably start looking into ways to make a decent salary working from home just in case. I loved that I had my dad with my brother and I during the day and my mom at night. Sure it didn't give them much time to be together, but for us it was awesome. My dad made every single tennis match I had (even the away games!) and coached my brother for years in baseball and golf. My mom had all the not-so-fun nighttime routine with us, but I always remember her making a special snack before bedtime and reading to us every night. And cleaning, she cleaned like a mad woman all the time. Poor woman must have been exhausted all the time.
But what do you do if you don't have one parent available during the day and grandparents aren't close enough, or willing, to help with childcare? Bf's work has an on-site day care center/ pre-school, but 11 1/2 hours a day in day care is a looooooong time. I can only pray that we figure out a situation that works best for everyone and allows us to still live comfortably.
I wish I could be one of those women that is super creative and can sell that creativity online. Like on etsy. Like this
woman. Not only does she have three little boys, she's super creative and so organized. I have seen all these amazing organization solutions on Pinterest, and shocker, they are all hers. And her husband also allows her to use COLOR in their home. And patterns! Bf is just going to have to learn to deal with a little bit of change. Not everything needs to be brown, navy, and stainless steel. I'll let you know how that goes. I think I'll start with some damask shelf liner. Slowly work things in.
Projects in the queue:
- Finish binding on quilt
- Start designing new quilt. Maybe a flannel baby quilt from the leftovers from my bib and burp cloth endeavor that failed
- Organize cleaning supplies under kitchen sink
- Line shelves and drawers
- Make a printable grocery list
- Create a blueprint for the master closet system
- Buy metal shelf for extra/bulky kitchen supplies and organize
- Various mending projects
- Check on compost and spread under rosebushes if ready
- Start a new compost pile/bag
- Pull out old, super thorny rosebushes in the back
- Prep side yard for this spring's crops
- Paint pantry door
- Put bag holder and broom/mop holder on pantry door
- Create a photo calendar for the year
- Sew bedroom curtains
- Create a menu board with our favorite foods on tags, ready to pick out for the week- so easy! Alternately, create a list of our favorite foods/meal combos and pick from the list before we go to the market